In an age where there is much harried and stressed sexual activity, marriage has become the ultimate stress-buster. When a couple gets married, the sexual tension that they have is often high as a result of expectations of a good sexual life. Marriages also tend to be very emotionally attached and involve a great deal of trust. A sad reality is that a large number of marriages are doomed to fail due to one or both partners’ inability to establish or uphold high moral standards.
If you want to make your marriage work and avoid ending up in divorce courts, then you need to understand the true importance of marital vows and their sanctity. A happy wife wants to know that her husband is doing everything in his power to be a good partner, while a happy wife also wants to know that her husband cares deeply for her. Without these fundamental moral principles at play in a marriage, there can be no true spiritual or emotional connection.
This is especially important in terms of sexual relationships. Many couples don’t realize that the way we think about sex is related to our overall mental and emotional health. As a result, when sex becomes the issue, it’s easy to revert to unhealthy ways of thinking and unhealthy behaviors that can lead to marital problems in the future.
It’s important to remember that marital vows were originally intended to express commitment and love for each other. As such, your vows should speak to your intimate partner what it is that you desire from your marriage. They should also convey your commitment to your spouse to be a good example of how to be sexually responsible and enjoyable in the bedroom. The way your words are delivered and the tone in which they’re spoken are just as critical to the success of your marriage as is the actual words themselves.
One of the first steps to healing any sexual problem in your relationship is to understand why it happens. Is it a physical problem? Is it an emotional problem? Maybe it’s both. Understanding where the sexual tension is leading your spouse to can help you address it and bring it to the forefront of your marriage so it can be dealt with appropriately and quickly.
In many cases, an underlying issue is a lack of interest on the part of one or both partners. In fact, studies have shown that an interest in the sexual act between married couples has decreased over time. With this decline, tension can build up and lead to a lack of satisfaction in the bedroom. One way that this tension can be handled is through marital therapy. With a trained marriage counselor, you and your spouse can identify what the problem is so you can work together to create a marriage that is filled with happiness and physical closeness.
Another reason why communication is so important is because it can often help to reduce tension. In some cases, marital problems are caused by an underlying fear or concern that the other person is not fully aware of. Communicating about these issues can be difficult, but your marriage counselor will know how to approach the topic in such a way that it will benefit both you and your spouse. For example, when a person feels threatened or uncomfortable due to a conversation, the natural reaction is to pull back or not speak further. However, if the marriage counselor allows communication to take place, the underlying issue can be dealt with and a resolution can be reached.
Finally, having safe sex has been proven to be an effective way to keep marital problems at bay. Discussing safe sex before your marriage can help to ensure that there are no misunderstandings or issues that are left unaddressed. This in turn can help to promote a more stable and loving relationship. Plus, when you are prepared for when the time does come, you can have more enjoyable and fulfilling sex than you ever thought possible. This is all thanks to your marriage counselor, who knows just what to do!